OK- off track here but have to comment: the pee in the pool thing really grosses me out. I may have to initiate a mandatory "pee before you get in" rule (right after the "don't splash mom" rule). I already have strict rule about always, ALWAYS having a dedicated adult watching any junior swimmers in my pool. If I'm spoiling their social scene then too bad, kiddo. I heard about the public pool stats but seriously- in a private pool people do this???