Ok, it looks like I have my mind made up on a sand filter. Thanks for all of your help Mark. I am going to go with this one.

PNSD0060DO2260 1-1/2* HP Dual Speed
2.3 sq. ft. effective filtration area
250# sand filter

Any suggestions on where to buy? I saw one that was priced good, but almost too good. Is there someone that the forum suggest we use (poolforum.com partner)?

I feel confident about the filter type. I couldnt find specs on uprated or full or anything like that, so with your expertise is this an energy efficient and quality pump that would be powerful enough for backwashing and vacuuming and strong enough for turnover? If so, I am moving on to the pool.