"DE will work its way into the sand" And that's supposed to be a problem? Good grief.
On a sand filter, you need to backwash when the pressure increases (and the flow drops). Often, an increase of 4 - 7 pounds is cite; just looked at a couple of PacFab (Pentair) manuals and saw a 10# increase noted.
I hadn't read those manuals in years, and was surprised to see that they all say the BEST way is to use a flowmeter, and backwash when flow drops 30%. If you want to do that, here are some flow meters that work pretty easily. Be sure to install them AFTER the filter, since dirt will plug them up.
http://www.poolpartsonline.com/p-333...00-series.aspx
or
http://www.a1poolparts.com/-strse-10...r-3/Detail.bok
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