I'm not clear on something. Have you added a total of 10 or 16 lbs. of CYA? Also, how did you add it and how many days has it been since you last added it? (If you added it to the skimmer, did you backwash any within 4 or 5 days of adding it?) In regards to the CYA test, you read it when the dot completely disappears.

You need to be running your pump more. Probably a minimum of 8-10 hours a day split into two 4 or 5 hour sessions, although right now while it is still somewhat cloudy/hazy, you should run it 24/7 to allow your filter to do its job clearing the water.

I would say for this big of a pool, only adding 1.42 gallons per night isn't much. That equates to only about 2ppm of chlorine. When you test it in the evenings before you add bleach, what is the cl reading? I would like you to do something. Test this evening before you add bleach and note the cl level. An hour after adding the bleach, test again. Then, test it again in the morning within 2 hours of sunrise and note that level. Then, report all three of those readings here.

TA, pH, and CH all look fine.

You're doing great! Keep up the good work!

(BTW - I agree with your wife --- water in the mid-70s is too cold. !)