Well it's still leaking. Really bad at first then I shut off the filter move the gasket through the positions and then turned the filter back on and it was down to a drip. I let the filter run for about 1/2 hour while vacuuming and by the time I was done with that it was still dripping but not as frequently.

I took it back out and wiped off all of the lubricant and also cleaned off in the valve assembly the plastic the gasket sits on. There was some old residue on it that had to be scraped off with my fingernail. Just going to try it and if the leak stops maybe I'll take it back off when I'm going to switch the filter to backwash and put a little bit of lubricant on.