Just a guess, but I would figure it out mathematically. How tall is your tank ? I would take that figure, divide it by the 650 lb, that will give you an approximate poundage per inch. At least get you close, so you don't buy 10 bags extra...
Just my 2 cents.
as far as the sand requirement, I am sure it has a lot to do with flow rate, and what the screens inside are capable of. I would defiantly not use play sand, as it is not sized uniformly.
Anyway, sure some others here that might know more will either correct me entirely, or add to my suggestions!
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