Thanks everyone for the replies - it's certainly a lot to think about. Primarily our pool will be used for the kids (ages 3 through 10). I want my kids to enjoy it while they're young but I also want just a great place to look at in the backyard. Additionally, I do want a really deep end for diving - my husband loves to dive. I considered the fiberglass but wasn't sure if I could find something as large as I want (20X40 with a 10 feet deep end) so I might do some more research into that.

Although I'm extremely partial to the gunite, I'm afraid that with the gunite I might just be able to get the pool and nothing else whereas with the vinyl I could probably do both a pool and possibly small pool house and more landscaping. Also, didn't add this before but I definately want a spillover spa so that adds to the cost. I've been researching for about 2 years and still am undecided, ha! Thanks for all the assistance everyone - keep those ideas coming!

JBHogfan