Tenax,
The problem is pipe length is not equivalent to head loss although they are related. There are rules of thumb but I would not recommend calculating head loss from the plumbing design as this is very difficult to do and not always very accurate. The easiest and most accurate method is to calculate it from your existing filter pressure.
Based upon your filter pressure of 16 PSI, you are currently at about 50 feet of head which is fairly typical.
Is the new pump a full rated or up rated 1 HP? A 1 HP uprated pump is the same as a 3/4 HP full rate pump so the one you got may be ok or close enough.
Also, you will have more GPM with your valves open than you will with them closed. You mention closing valves to control GPM but why would you want to do that? Filter limits? If so, I would not try to adjust GPM on the suction side as this usually causes cavitation or air leaks. It is best to control GPM on the return side if possible. Pumps perform better this way.
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