This thread is really starting to sound like an investment of 10-20 thousand more up front for that large country property is really worth it considering what you have and still are going through!
This just reaffirms that I'm glad i did what I did, maybe I don't have a beautiful inground pool, just a measly 30 foot round lake that is probably just as much fun at 1/10th the cost, I have neighbours that are awesome and helpful, heck, even our dogs get together a couple of times a week to hang out, my ruts are my ruts, his ruts are his ruts, we make fun of each other's grass when it gets brown instead of figuring out a way to blame the other for it!