Good advice!! I agree 100%. Rise above it all.Originally Posted by tmmort
"A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger."
I would make sure their yard was better than it was before, along with sending Lovely Newly Wed a bouquet of flowers with a swimming invite upon completion.
I've unfortunately had the experience of living next to brooding neighbors - life's too short for that. JMHO.
Good advice!! I agree 100%. Rise above it all.Originally Posted by tmmort
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I agree. At least then they have nothing to complain about.Originally Posted by tmmort
Flowers? Swimming invite?? Are you kidding me? That will just reinforce their childish behaviour for the next project they're involved in. Not for me, but then again I 'm stubborn and will not give an inch especially since they happily agreed to the project. What did the neighbors think they were going to dig the pool with a garden shovel??along with sending Lovely Newly Wed a bouquet of flowers with a swimming invite upon completion.
I've unfortunately had the experience of living next to brooding neighbors - life's too short for that. JMHO.
Just my 2 cents. Surely others would react differently. I think they are doing everything they can but the neighbors are uncooperative.
I agree, with that, if the neighbors agreed to the project, then ongoing perfection is not going to happen, their yard cannot be restored daily, they do not make hovercraft backhoes, and the dirt is not getting airlifted out of the backyard. Sounds like the neighbors are typical construction-ignorant types.
As for returning the yard back to better than original, by all means do that, but don't invite them over, I would say they would have to earn that.
Does your neighbor run out to grab soccer balls, baseballs, frisbees... that land on her yard too?
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Update -
Right before we left for vacation on Sunday (6/23/06) - I wrote a letter (scanned and kept a copy) explaining that we had the sprinkler company out on Friday and they could not repair their system because no one was home to turn on the water. I continued that they are to contact the sprinkler company and included the guys name and number (the guy also left a card on their door) and that he would make an appointment at their convenience. I also told them that he would come by daily while we were out of town to immediately repair any damage that may occur. I thanked them for their patience and for their permission to use their yard for the installation.
I put it in an envelope with a bottle of wine on their front porch.
They came by about an hour later and thanked us for the wine and that they had talked to the sprinkler company.
Anyway - I have been home for 2 days now and they are not talking to us. So I guess I will wait until the PM for the pool builder calls me back to see what happened while we are gone.
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Simmons,
That seems to be great news. You seem to be a great guy and take care of business. I wish I had a neighbor like you. To me you did all you can and you are being very helpfull to make sure your neighbor gets their yard issues resolved at the end of your pool project. I just hope the same happens here w/ us when out builder starts to break ground or break the fence down. Oh yea.... I have not told the neighbor yet. hehehe
Last edited by Pool_Mike; 07-05-2006 at 02:57 PM.
Its easy for us to sit back and laugh, but I'm SURE its no joking matter to you...you just KNOW they are going to contact a lawyer the minute the pool is complete with a LONG list of "damages" and "pain and suffering"....you might want to look over your home owners policy, and take LOTS of photos to help defend your case...plus LOTS of notes.Originally Posted by Simmons99
Good Luck...and enjoy the pool.
Man, am I glad I don't live in your neck of the woods, I have great neighbours!
I really feel for you, definitely DO NOT EVER invite them over for a swim or anything else for that matter, get their yard fixed good as new, give them a sprinkler head or two for their troubles with a little note saying something like
...in case they didn't find them all.
I couldn't agree more. As you say...return the yard to the proper condition. I would also be more than willing to assist the neighbor with any repairs they may be doing on their own. But it doesn't seem that this young couple is concerned enough to get a little dirty while making the repairs themselves.Originally Posted by sevver
More often than not...it's much easier for people to complain rather than just fix the problem. It's also much quicker.
My guess...this couple will continue complaining about this much after the problem is gone.
take care,
dan
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