I completely understand!!

We live on the same farm/land and share a driveway, so going to her house is no problem. I have to drive right by it multiple times a day.

Granted, I don't want to (nor do I have time to) spend HOURS at her house every day, but I can go daily or even more than once a day with no problem. It's literally right across the pasture. I can probably get her to vacuum, brush walls, etc. But she's definitely more than willing to hand over the reins to someone else. She doesn't have trouble standing back and letting others do the thinking.

The biggest issue that might come up is money. And naturally, I have no clue where the cutoff point is....only she knows that. I just know, that like many others, there isn't a lot of it right now. LOL

She's just got this horrible looking mess in her backyard and if there is any way to fix it, I'd be willing to help. But I'm not sure it's fixable without something drastic.....like replastering/painting, etc. And I'm nearly positive she doesn't have the funds for that....so there really may be nothing I can do.